Meekness of Wisdom

“Who is wise and understanding among you? Let him show by good conduct that his works are done in the meekness of wisdom.” (James 3:13 )

Pillar of Meekness

Meekness is the third pillar in the House of Wisdom. This means you value listening to understand versus debating to be right.

Easier said then done, especially in the midst of contention, potential adversity, and trials. Sometimes things can sour.

Customers get upset, employees feel hurt, and competitors attack. How you respond (not how you react) is the difference maker… whether or not something good will come of it.

When we owned a bike shop, Scott had the opportunity to build a custom Titanium mountain bike for a customer.

It was not where technology was headed. Scott knew he was right about this and was tempted to argue the point with this customer until he won the debate.

But our customer had convinced himself his way was the way to go, so Scott built him a beautiful $4,000 bike which became obsolete within a year or two. But we won a loyal patron.

We learned that subjective reality has its own set of rules. Another’s reality -their “truth”- is what’s important to them.

Remember this. Speak the truth in love for their benefit, but value helpfulness over coming out on top of a disagreement.

Good Conduct

How do you respond to insults, injuries, and volatile situations with others?
Are you fuel for the fire or a calm, soothing agent?

Our flesh impulse is to call down fire from heaven. We have to take a step back and let Christ take a step forward so we can show good conduct when we feel like being nasty and vengeful.

This is walking in the Spirit or the new man. This is meekness… a strength of character that has a dramatic impact on those it touches.

Meekness of Wisdom

Whether it’s avoiding arguments with customers, empathizing with disgruntled employees, or keeping good relationships with competitors, meekness will earn you a reputation as one who is wise and understanding.

Next week we’ll look at the central pillar of Wisdom’s house… righteousness.